Group Guidelines
  1. We recognize that love is listening; and we do so with an open heart and mind. We agree to give mutual support and practice non-judgmental listening and sharing.
  2. We are here to heal ourselves. We are not here to give advice or to change anyone's beliefs or behavior. Being accepted as we are makes it easier for us to accept others.
  3. We share from our own experience. By risking and exposing our own emotional state, we find common experience that allows for joining.
  4. We respect ourselves and each other as unique, recognizing that each person's process is important, not our judgment of it.
  5. We support each other's inner guidance and assist one another in finding our own best answers.
  6. The roles of student and teacher are interchangeable. They fluctuate from one to the other regardless of age or experience.
  7. We practice being present with others, seeing each person as whole and not defining them by their appearance, mood, behavior or circumstance.
  8. We agree to keep in mind that we always have a choice between peace and conflict, between love and fear.
  9. We are responsible for the confidentiality of what we share in group, recognizing that this is essential for maintaining the group as a place of safety and trust.

Confidentiality is strictly maintained with the following exceptions: If someone poses a serious danger to themselves or another, or if there is suspected child or elder abuse or neglect we are required by law to report this information to the appropriate authorities.

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